Soto Amicus for a stove, which I’ve been really impressed with. 4 way pot stand is solid, very wind resistant as it uses an inverted burner and the pizo igniter has been flawless so far. Big enough burner head with fine controls that you can actually simmer in the right pot.
For bigger groups I’ve enjoyed my GSI Haulite 1.8l pot. Non stickyish aluminum, good lid, solid folding handle that holds the pot closed in your bag, nice markings, fits a 230g gas canister alongside stove and misc on the inside. Always use a cut off half sponge inside the pot to stop things from rattling around and gives me something to clean with + some biodegradable soap in eyedropper bottle.
Picked up a second hand little titanium 0.8L MSR Titan pot the other day that I’m keen to try out for lighter trips where I just boil water for myself. Will fit a 110g canister upside down and not much else in it. Very very well built though and weighs next to nothing.
Ended up with a little plastic handled mug and bowl from some GSI kit that are nothing interesting, but do their job and are lighter than titanium. Can’t really justify changing them out until they die. Have had a good experience with the grey plastic Sea to Summit sporks from Cape Union. Decently sized, cheap, don’t scratch coated things and pretty tough so far.
If I’m in a group with people I really like having one of those fold up fire maple gas canister stands you can get at Cape Union, they add a lot of stability. These little stoves make me nervous when there are people chatting and clomping around, have seen too many knocked over pots and feel very lucky I haven’t seen anyone too badly burnt. So so happy those campingaz canisters you have to pierce have finally started to die the death they deserve. I grew up on horror stories around those gone wrong.